If you ever find yourself oppressed and living a life which is not yours but someone else’s, RUN as fast as you can before you get complacent or even fearful of a new beginning! Avoid “the survival mode” or the crappy life others might want you to have. Reach out from within, have an unwavering faith in God, find your voice and allow yourself to live a life of JOY based on your own terms. Easier said than done. I know! But trust in your prayers. You’re not alone!